❣️Now offering in person sessions in Newcastle, Aus
For enquiries, please click the button below to send me an email.
1:1 Sex and Body-Image Coaching
It’s about time you found vulva acceptance, a deep sense of self-love & unwavering sexual confidence
Gem // The Blood Slut
Sex & Body-Image Coach
Sex Educator
PMDD, Migraine & Menstrual Cycle Dietitian & Nutritionist
Qualifications
Graduate Diploma in Sexology
Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics
(with psychology electives)
Please Note: All of my coaching services are online (Zoom and text) so you can see me from anywhere in the world!
DISCLAIMER: My services are for adults only.
✅ LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care - I coach ANYONE with a vulva including trans and gender diverse folks (I’m genderfluid myself).
✅ Trauma-informed care
✅ Menstrual cycle informed care - because your cycle affects every aspect of your life
After Working With Me You Will:
✅ Have less anxiety-provoking sex
✅ Feel more confident and accepting of the vulva you have
✅ Have a boosted sense of self-worth
✅ Feel deeply connected to your intuition and to your body
✅ Have a comprehensive understanding of how to communicate assertively both in and out the bedroom
✅ Have a tool belt of psychosomatic healing modalities to sooth & regulate your nervous system
My Coaching Sessions are Supportive and Healing Through the Use of:
🌀 Psychosomatic(mind-body) healing modalities
🧠 Mind re-programming i.e. re-wiring your subconscious mind by shifting deep-seated limiting, negative belief systems into more healthy ones
🪞 Shadow Work i.e. integrating the suppressed parts of your authentic self and learning to accept all of parts of you
Want to book a session with me, but have some questions you’d like answered first?
3-Month Coaching Package
PLEASE READ:You must send me an email to book a package
❤️🔥 What you get:
✅ 6x 90min fortnightly sessions on Zoom or face to face in Newcastle, Aus
You have the option to add text message support between sessions at an extra cost.
Clients who have completed a 3-month coaching package can then book single follow-up sessions as needed or purchase another package.
✨ Investment:
$1,290 AUD / ~$860 USD
💵 Payment:
Pay as a one-time payment or fortnightly instalments of $160 AUD / ~ $113 USD (payment plans can be tailored to meet your needs.
Individual Coaching Sessions (Zoom or In-Person*)
*If you’d like to book a face to face session, please email me to book. 📍 Location is Pachamama House, Hamilton (Newcastle), NSW, Aus
How it works:
Step 1. New clients can book a discovery call if they’d like to meet me on Zoom first: book your discovery call.
Step 2. Click here to book in an initial 90 minute session via Zoom. For face to face sessions, please email me to book.
Step 3. Book follow-up sessions as needed. Most people will need several follow-up sessions. If you haven’t worked with me before I recommend the Coaching Package (see above).
You have the option of either a 60 or 90 min follow-up.
Outie Sanctuary graduates - please book a follow-up session.
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Sliding scale is ONLY for folks who are low income earners e.g. folks on DSP or other government payments and students.
Sliding scale means you choose how much you pay.
The base rate for an initial session is $149 AUD and the base rate for 60min follow ups is $89 AUD. Please check conversions in your currency.
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I don’t want money to be the barrier that stops you from accessing this specialised, life-changing support.
If you cannot afford to pay for each session as you go, we can set up an extended payment plan - book a discovery call to set this up :)
Payment plans are also available for packages.
Investment
✅ Sliding scale available for folks experiencing financial hardship - email me to discuss or read more below.
✅ Upon booking you will be required to pay a deposit (or you can pay the full cost upfront). The rest of the payment will be made after the session.
Initial session:
Sliding scale base rate: $149 AUD (~$104 USD)
Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)
Follow-up sessions (60mins):
Sliding scale base rate: $89 AUD (~$62 USD)
Full price: $149 AUD (~$104 USD)
Follow-up sessions (90mins):
Sliding scale base rate: $149 AUD (~$51 USD)
Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)
Have a question about payment options?
Email me to discuss payment options; I’m always willing to be flexible to meet your needs, I don’t want finances to be a barrier to you receiving the support you need.
Text Message Coaching
✅ Must book a discovery call to access this service
✅ Text and voice message coaching via the Voxer app
✅ Message me any time and I will respond within my business hours*
✅ Minimum of one month.
✅ Flexible! You choose how many months you want coaching for.
✨ Investment: Negotiated between myself and the client to suit finances - email me to discuss.
To request more info on payment options, send an email to gem@iamawildgem.com
*Scroll to the bottom of this page to view my business hours
Are You Ready to Fully Embrace Your Sexual Self?
FAQ’S
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I’m based in Newcastle, Australia (AEST/AEDT). My clinic is located at Pachamama House in Hamilton. I work here on Wednesdays 12-4pm.
A large part of my online community is based in the US and I see clients via Zoom from all over the world! My online session hours are Tues & Fri 10am-4pm and Sat 10am-3pm
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✅ Folks who are insecure about the colour of their vulva/labia
✅ Folks who are insecure about the size of either their labia majora (outer lips) or labia minora (inner lips)
✅ Folks who are insecure about their clitoris
✅ Folks who desire a closer, more loving relationship with their vulva
✅ Folks who feel they carry a lot of unresolved, repressed sexual and/or slut shame
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✅ Your coach (aka me) is a queer, genderfluid slut! I studied gender diversity and queerness in my Sexology degree so I’m thoroughly educated in this space and provide LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care to my clients.
✅ I’m neurodivergent affirming (and AuDHD myself)
✅ Trauma-informed care. I also live with cPTSD myself, so I understand through a personal lived experience lens how challenging living with complex trauma can be
✅ I coach from a place of personal lived experience - I used to want a labiaplasty due to severe labia insecurities. I can personally relate to your experiences, helping you to feel seen and validated.
✅ Your sessions will be sprinkled with light-hearted fun and goofiness. We’ll dance, celebrate wins, laugh and be our silly-billy selves! In order to get through the mud, we’ve gotta mix it up with some goofiness!
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Yes! You can see me from anywhere in the world. Even with timezone differences, my clients and I always make it work.
Coaches as specialised as me are hard to come by, so you may find it tricky to find someone who does what I do in close proximity to you.
My holistic coaching style, combination of qualifications (bachelor of nutrition and dietetics w/ psychology electives and sexology graduate diploma) and specialisation (labia and vulva insecurities) is very unique.
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This will depend on the severity and complexity of the root causes of your insecurities. For most folks it will take at least 6 months to a year of consistent coaching with me and inner healing work to get long-lasting results with minimal relapse. I recommend having sessions with me fortnightly for the best results, but you can do weekly if that works better for you.
It takes time to re-wire and reprogram your brains belief systems and sustainable healing requires consistent commitment and dedication.
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Unfortunately not at this stage, my services are for adults only.
I recommend checking out my free vulva connection meditation and my podcast in the mean time to get started until you are old enough (18+) to see me for coaching.
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Absolutely! I'm genderfluid myself and studied gender diversity + queerness in my Sexology Graduate Diploma so I am thoroughly educated in this space.
If you are confused or uneducated on this topic, please do not hesitate to reach out to me, I’m more than happy to educate you as long as you are respectful and open to learning.