Coaching for Labia Insecurities & Vulva Shame

Gem aka The Blood Slut

Labia Acceptance Coach

PMDD Dietitian & Nutritionist

Menstrual Cycle Educator

Qualifications

Graduate Diploma in Sexology

Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics

(with psychology electives)

Please Note: All of my coaching services are online (Zoom and text) so you can see me from anywhere in the world!

DISCLAIMER: My services are for adults only.

✅ LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care

✅ Trauma-informed care

✅ Menstrual cycle informed care (because your cycle affects every aspect of your life)

After Working With Me You Will:

✅ Have less anxiety-provoking sex

✅ Feel more confident and accepting of the vulva you have

✅ Have a boosted sense of self-worth

✅ Feel deeply connected to your intuition and to your body

✅ Have a comprehensive understanding of how to communicate assertively both in and out the bedroom

✅ Have a tool belt of psychosomatic healing modalities to sooth & regulate your nervous system

My Coaching Sessions are Supportive and Healing Through the Use of:

  • Psychosomatic (mind & body) healing modalities

  • Brain re-programming aka re-wiring your brain by shifts limiting, negative belief systems into healthy ones

  • Shadow Work aka integrating the suppressed parts of your authentic self

Coaching Options: What is Your Best Fit?

The Outie Sanctuary

(6-month group coaching program held on Zoom)

This is the best option for you if:

  • You enjoy being coached in a group setting and forming a sense of community with those going through the same healing journey as you.

  • You want to challenge yourself by opening up to not just me but other folks about your experience - this can be really powerful form of healing and building your self-confidence.

  • You’re really good at holding yourself accountable and ready to make lasting change in your life.

  • If you require extra support during the program, additionally you can book one-on-one sessions or text message support.

Click here to learn more about the Outie Sanctuary.

2. One-On-One Coaching via Zoom

This is the best option for you if:

  • You dislike talking about your struggles in front of several people and feel this anxiety or fear may impact your ability to show up to live group coaching calls

  • Your insecurity is extremely debilitating i.e. it affects your day to day life A LOT, you’re considering labiaplasty or have one booked (for aesthetic reasons), you experience urges to remove your labia yourself or you have extremely low self-worth.

  • You struggle with committing to change and holding yourself accountable (i.e. you’ll struggle to complete homework etc without someone encouraging you and holding you accountable). For example you’re a neurodivergent person who struggles with procrastination and other forms of executive dysfunction, this option may suit you better as you will have me in your back pocket for message support in between coaching sessions.

  • You’re ready to commit to this healing journey

3: One-On-One Coaching via Text Message

Get coached via text and voice message through an app called Voxer. This is a great option for busy folks and for Outie Sanctuary graduates who desire some extra support during or after the program.

4: A Combination

You can choose to do a combo of any of the above.

Click here to learn more about One-on-One Coaching Via Zoom and text.

Not Sure Which Option is Best for You?

Book a complimentary discovery call.

I've got your back with free advice and recommendations tailored just for you and your unique situation (you must have a discovery call prior to working with me).

One-On-One Coaching

Option 1: Individual Coaching Sessions (Zoom)

How it works:

Step 1. New clients MUST book a discovery call: book your discovery call.

Step 2. After your discovery call, you will book in an initial 90 minute session.

Step 3. Then you will book follow-up sessions as needed: Most people will need several follow-up sessions. Outie Sanctuary graduates - please book a follow-up session.

✅ Discounts available for folks experiencing financial hardship - book a discovery call to discuss.

✅ 60 min and 90 min follow-ups available to meet your individual needs.

Payment

I use a sliding scale in my practice.

Sliding scale means you choose how much you pay, this makes my services as financially accessible as possible. The base rate for an initial individual session is $80 AUD and the base rate for 60min follow ups is $60 AUD. Please check conversions in your currency.

If the base rate of the sliding scale is still out of reach for you, send me an email and we can work something out. I don’t want money to be the barrier that stops you from accessing this specialised, life-changing support.

Prices

Initial session:

Sliding scale base rate: $80 AUD (~$51 USD)

Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)

Follow-up sessions (60mins):

Sliding scale base rate: $60 AUD (~$38 USD)

Full price: $149 AUD (~$95 USD)

Follow-up sessions (90mins):

Sliding scale base rate: $80 AUD (~$51 USD)

Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)

Schedule a discovery call or email me to discuss payment options; I am always willing to be flexible to meet your needs, I don’t want finances to be a barrier from your receiving the support you need.

Option 2: 3-Month Package

(Zoom +Text)

PLEASE READ: New clients MUST book a discovery call: book your discovery call.

✅ 6x 90min fortnightly sessions

✅ Payment plans available - request one in our discovery call.

✅ Includes text + voice message support in between sessions. This will only continue for 6 weeks from the date of your first session. Extra message support can be arranged if needed.

✅ Clients who have completed a 3-month coaching package can then book single follow-up sessions as needed.

Payment

  • $150/wk AUD (~$93 USD) for 3 months

I offer discounted packages to low-income earners, email me to discuss.

Option 3: Text Message Coaching

✅ Text and voice message coaching via the Voxer app

✅ Message me any time and I will respond within my business hours.

✅ Flexible! You choose how many months you want coaching. Minimum of one month.

Payment Options

  • Sliding scale starting from a base rate of 80/wk

  • To request more info on payment options, send an email to gem@iamawildgem.com or book a discovery call to chat with me on Zoom.

Are You Ready to Fully Embrace Your Labia?

Book Your Discovery Call

A free 30min Zoom call.

This call is a chance for us to connect before your coaching sessions. It's like a virtual meet and greet! If you want to work with me, we need to have a discovery call first. This helps us go over the coaching agreement and find the best option for you.

FAQ’S

  • ✅ Your coach (aka me) is a queer, genderfluid slut! I studied gender diversity and queerness in my Sexology degree so I’m thoroughly educated in this space and provide LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care to my clients.

    ✅ I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD) and trauma-informed which adds yet another layer of depth to my work and the care you receive inside the program.

    ✅ I coach from a place of personal lived experience so I can personally relate to your experiences, making you feel seen and validated on a whole other level.

    ✅ Your sessions will be sprinkled with light-hearted fun and goofiness . We’ll dance, celebrate wins, laugh and be our silly-billy selves! In order to get through the mud, we’ve gotta mix it up with some goofiness!

  • This will depend on the severity and complexity of the root causes of your insecurities. For most folks it will take at least 6 months to a year of consistent coaching with me and inner healing work to get long-lasting results with minimal relapse. I recommend having sessions with me fortnightly for the best results, but you can do weekly if that works better for you.

    It takes time to re-wire and reprogram your brains belief systems and sustainable healing requires consistent commitment and dedication.

  • Unfortunately not at this stage, my services are for adults only.

    I recommend checking out my free vulva connection meditation in the mean time to get started until you are old enough to see me for coaching.

  • I’m based on the east coast of Australia but I work completely online. My timezone is AEST/AEDT. The majority of my clients and audience are actually based in the US! And I see clients from all over the world.

  • ✅ Folk

  • Absolutely! I'm genderfluid myself. If you’re transphobic or a TERF (meaning you do not accept trans/gender diverse people or believe only cis women have vulvas) please do not book a session with me - we are not going to get along lol, I recommend listening to this podcast series I did with a biologist to get educated.

    If you are confused or uneducated on this topic, please do not hesitate to reach out to me, I’m more than happy to educate you as long as you are respectful and open to learning.

  • On Zoom (online video call).

  • Yes! You can see me from anywhere in the world. Even with timezone differences, my clients and I always make it work.

    Coaches like me are hard to come by so you may find it tricky to find someone who does what I do in close proximity to you as my coaching style and what I help people with is very unique and specialised.