Coaching for Labia, Vulva & Body Acceptance & Healing Sexual Shame
Gem aka The Blood Slut
Labia Acceptance Coach & Sexual Healer
PMDD & Menstrual Cycle Educator
Dietitian & Nutritionist
Qualifications
Graduate Diploma in Sexology
Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics
(with psychology electives)
Please Note: All of my coaching services are online (Zoom and text) so you can see me from anywhere in the world!
DISCLAIMER: My services are for adults only.
✅ LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care — I coach ANYONE with a vulva including trans and gender diverse folks (I’m genderfluid myself).
✅ Trauma-informed care
✅ Menstrual cycle informed care — because your cycle affects every aspect of your life
After Working With Me You Will:
✅ Have less anxiety-provoking sex
✅ Feel more confident and accepting of the vulva you have
✅ Have a boosted sense of self-worth
✅ Feel deeply connected to your intuition and to your body
✅ Have a comprehensive understanding of how to communicate assertively both in and out the bedroom
✅ Have a tool belt of psychosomatic healing modalities to sooth & regulate your nervous system
My Coaching Sessions are Supportive and Healing Through the Use of:
Psychosomatic (mind-body) healing modalities
Brain Re-programming i.e. re-wiring your brain by shifts limiting, negative belief systems into healthy ones
Shadow Work i.e. integrating the suppressed parts of your authentic self and learning to accept all of parts of you
Wanna Work With Me?
30 min complimentary consult on Zoom.
If you don’t see a time that works for you, email gem@iamawildgem.com and I’ll open up a slot that works for you.
One-On-One Coaching
Option 1: Individual Coaching Sessions (Zoom)
How it works:
Step 1. New clients can book a discovery call if they’d like to meet me on Zoom first: book your discovery call.
Step 2. Book in an initial 90 minute session.
Step 3. Book follow-up sessions as needed. Most people will need several follow-up sessions.
You have the option of either a 60 or 90 min follow-up.
Outie Sanctuary graduates - please book a follow-up session.
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Sliding scale means you choose how much you pay, this makes my services as financially accessible as possible. The base rate for an initial individual session is $80 AUD and the base rate for 60min follow ups is $60 AUD. Please check conversions in your currency.
If the base rate of the sliding scale is still out of reach for you, send me an email and we can work something out. I don’t want money to be the barrier that stops you from accessing this specialised, life-changing support.
Investment
✅ Sliding scale available for folks experiencing financial hardship - book a discovery call to discuss or read more below.
✅ Upon booking you will be required to pay a deposit (or you can pay the full cost upfront). The rest of the payment will be made after the session.
Initial session:
Sliding scale base rate: $80 AUD (~$51 USD)
Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)
Follow-up sessions (60mins):
Sliding scale base rate: $60 AUD (~$38 USD)
Full price: $149 AUD (~$95 USD)
Follow-up sessions (90mins):
Sliding scale base rate: $80 AUD (~$51 USD)
Full price: $215 AUD (~$137 USD)
Have a question about payment options?
Book a discovery call or email me to discuss payment options; I’m always willing to be flexible to meet your needs, I don’t want finances to be a barrier to you receiving the support you need.
Option 2: 3-Month Package
(Zoom +Text)
PLEASE READ: You must have a discovery call before booking a package: book your discovery call.
✅ 6x 90min fortnightly sessions
✅ Payment plans available - request one in our discovery call.
✅ Includes text + voice message support in between sessions. This will only continue for 6 weeks from the date of your first session. Extra message support can be arranged if needed.
✅ Clients who have completed a 3-month coaching package can then book single follow-up sessions as needed.
Payment
$150/wk AUD (~$93 USD) for 3 months
I offer discounted packages to low-income earners, email me to discuss.
Option 3: Text Message Coaching
✅ Must book a discovery call to access this service
✅ Text and voice message coaching via the Voxer app
✅ Message me any time and I will respond within my business hours.
✅ Flexible! You choose how many months you want coaching. Minimum of one month.
Investment
Sliding scale starting from a base rate of 80/wk
To request more info on payment options, send an email to gem@iamawildgem.com or book a discovery call to chat with me on Zoom.
Are You Ready to Fully Embrace Your Vulva & Sexual Self?
Book Your Discovery Call
A free 30min Zoom call.
This call is a chance for us to connect before your coaching sessions. It's like a virtual meet and greet! If you want to work with me, we need to have a discovery call first. This helps us go over the coaching agreement and find the best option for you.
If you don’t see a time that works for you, send an email to gem@iamawildgem.com and I’ll open up a slot that works for you.
FAQ’S
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No, although I do encourage it if we have never spoken before. It’s important that we meet before starting a coach-client relationship to ensure that we are a good match and that we vibe!
If we have spoken on Instagram and you’re feeling confident that I’m the right coach for you, you can go ahead and book.
This call is free.
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Yes! You can see me from anywhere in the world. Even with timezone differences, my clients and I always make it work.
Coaches like me are hard to come by so you may find it tricky to find someone who does what I do in close proximity to you as my coaching style and what I help people with is very unique and specialised.
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✅ Your coach (aka me) is a queer, genderfluid slut! I studied gender diversity and queerness in my Sexology degree so I’m thoroughly educated in this space and provide LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care to my clients.
✅ I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD) and trauma-informed which adds yet another layer of depth to my work and the care you receive inside the program.
✅ I coach from a place of personal lived experience so I can personally relate to your experiences, making you feel seen and validated on a whole other level.
✅ Your sessions will be sprinkled with light-hearted fun and goofiness . We’ll dance, celebrate wins, laugh and be our silly-billy selves! In order to get through the mud, we’ve gotta mix it up with some goofiness!
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✅ Folks who are insecure about the colour of their vulva/labia
✅ Folks who are insecure about the size of either their labia majora (outer lips) or labia minora (inner lips)
✅ Folks who are insecure about their clitoris
✅ Folks who desire a closer, more loving relationship with their vulva
✅ Folks who feel they carry a lot of unresolved, repressed sexual and/or slut shame
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This will depend on the severity and complexity of the root causes of your insecurities. For most folks it will take at least 6 months to a year of consistent coaching with me and inner healing work to get long-lasting results with minimal relapse. I recommend having sessions with me fortnightly for the best results, but you can do weekly if that works better for you.
It takes time to re-wire and reprogram your brains belief systems and sustainable healing requires consistent commitment and dedication.
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Unfortunately not at this stage, my services are for adults only.
I recommend checking out my free vulva connection meditation in the mean time to get started until you are old enough to see me for coaching.
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I’m based on the east coast of Australia but I work completely online. My timezone is AEST/AEDT. The majority of my clients and audience are actually based in the US! And I see clients from all over the world.
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Absolutely! I'm genderfluid myself. If you’re transphobic or a TERF (meaning you do not accept trans/gender diverse people or believe only cis women have vulvas) please do not book a session with me - we are not going to get along lol, I recommend listening to this podcast series I did with a biologist to get educated.
If you are confused or uneducated on this topic, please do not hesitate to reach out to me, I’m more than happy to educate you as long as you are respectful and open to learning.
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On Zoom (online video call).
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Yes! There is also no obligation for you to work with me after having one. This call is to help us decide if we vibe and will be a good match!