Gem aka The Blood Slut
Sex & Body-Image Coach
Sex & Menstrual Cycle Educator
Dietitian & Nutritionist
Qualifications
Graduate Diploma in Sexology
Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics
(with psychology electives)
About Me
Hey doll, welcome into my world! I’m a neurodivergent, genderfluid slut who’s hard at work dismantling patriarchy, capitalism and decolonising.
I support folks of all genders to have more pleasurable periods (YES, periods don’t have to be a burden!), how to manage PMDD and how to love their vulvas regardless of labia size, colour or shape!
I long for a world where womb holders, queer folk and women live in sync with their own cyclical rhythms and worship the f*** out of their bleeding bodies and pussies!
Free Palestine 🇵🇸 Free Congo 🇨🇩 Free Sudan 🇸🇩 Free Ukraine 🇺🇦 and FREE any other indigenous peoples facing genocide, oppression & exploitation.
I work solely online, so I can support you wherever you are.
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In 2019, I felt a void deep inside me that I eventually identified as the absence of my period. I hadn’t bled for months due to my IUD, so, in 2019 I had it removed and started healing my relationship with my womb and cycle. Embracing my menstrual cycle as a spiritual practice and cyclical living as a way of life transformed me, prompting me to share my journey on Instagram.
Through my Instagram I began using my voice to encourage and embrace unconventional conversations that challenged societal norms. I focused on taboo topics like sex, periods and my personal experiences as a survivor of DV and SA. You can tune in to my podcast Blood Slut for these raw, audacious discussions that I still continue to have today.
After 6 years studying nutrition, dietetics, and sexology, I decided to use my passion for periods to create my online course, Blood Magik. Blood Magik supports menstruators in connecting deeply with their period and menstrual blood through spiritual, self-connection practices. -
Now I’m known by my community as The Blood Slut. Through my Instagram and podcast I’ve educated millions on the topics of vulva diversity, outie labias, sexuality, menstruality and PMDD. Pretty wild considering I started out as a quiet, socially anxious dietetics student with zero self-worth, who was so f*cking lost.
As an outie-owner sharing my journey online, I've realised how common this insecurity is. So, in 2024 I launched the Outie Sanctuary - an online program for folks overcoming vulva and labia insecurities. I know also offer one-on-one coaching for this issue as well.
I also support PMDD warriors (as a former one myself) in managing their symptoms holistically. You can learn more about PMDD through my PMDD podcast series.
Outside of work you can find me ocean swimming, ecstatic dancing, bush walking, camping, binging a reality show or reading a fantasy novel.
I deeply desire to support as many humans as I can in this lifetime to fall deeply in love with their menstrual cycle and pussy.
How Can I Support You?
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My online group coaching program for folks who are self-conscious about their labia and desire building a loving relationship with their vulva.
Next cohort begins Sept ‘25, join the waitlist here.
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Feeling self-conscious or insecure about your labia can really negatively affect your sex life and quality of life as a whole. I’ve been there myself and it sucks. You don’t need to feel stuck any longer, support is available that doesn’t involve surgery.
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My mission is to guide you back to your souls wisdom, opening space for you to deeply connect with your authentic nature so you can manifest your dream life and version of yourself. In my online course Blood Magik, I teach you how to do this through connecting deeply with your period, womb and menstrual blood.
Not sure which service is right for you?
Book a discovery call and I can use my professional opinion to recommend the best option for you.
If you don’t see a time that works for you, email gem@iamawildgem.com and I’ll open up a slot that works for you.
Qualifications
Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics with 30 units of psychology electives (2015-2019)
Graduate Diploma in Sexology (2021)
Personal Development & Further Training
I’ve attended many menstrual cycle and Fertility Awareness Method (FAM) trainings and workshops since 2020.
From 2023-2025 I’ve completed 30 hours of Evolutionary Astrology workshops. My hope is to bring this knowledge into my client sessions as a way to understand them and how they process things on a deeper level.
I often attend breathwork, manifestation and embodiment trainings and workshops to further develop and expand my somatic healing modality tool box and to learn other tools to further support my clients.
In 2022 I completed a 6-month Womb-Led Business Program where I learnt how to sync my business and life with my menstrual cycle. I completed another 6-week cyclical living and business program in 2022 as well.