The Outie Sanctuary

The Group Coaching Program for Labia Acceptance

Learn to overcome labia insecurities and build a loving relationship with your vulva without a labiaplasty.

Facilitated by outie-owner and Labia Acceptance Coach, Gem aka The Blood Slut.

Gem aka The Blood Slut

Labia Acceptance Coach

PMDD Dietitian & Nutritionist

Menstrual Cycle Educator

Qualifications

Graduate Diploma in Sexology

Bachelor of Nutrition & Dietetics

(with psychology electives)

✅ LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care

✅ Trauma-informed care

✅ Menstrual cycle informed care (because your cycle affects every aspect of your life, including your relationship with your vulva)

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✅ Be the first to know when enrolment opens to secure your spot (limited spots available to keep the group intimate).

✅ Get access to EXCLUSIVE discounts

If you’re in urgent need of support from me or you’re only interested in seeing me one-on-one click here.

“Is there something wrong with me? Why is there skin hanging from my labia?!”

If you’ve had this thought before, don’t worry, you’re not alone. School sex ed failed us by not teaching us about vulva diversity i.e. that vulvas and labias can look all sorts of ways and still be healthy!

My Story

I used to only have sex in dim lighting, tuck my flaps in when I was naked around friends and hold my flaps apart in doggy so they didn’t hang down.

These unhealthy coping mechanisms were so distracting from the actual sex, that I was rarely present or actually enjoying myself.

I was so preoccupied by my insecurity that I would experience frequent urges to grab a pair of scissors and chop my labia minora off. 

I was relentlessly bullied by ex boyfriends and close girlfriends for having an outie.

A labiaplasty seemed like the only way this ‘problem’ could be fixed. 

Many years later I learnt about vulva diversity through my Sexology studies, this helped me realise that I didn’t need surgery to love my labia, I just needed to establish new, healthy belief systems about my body (I teach you how to do this in the membership).

Now, my relationship with my vulva is so strong that negative vulva-thoughts no longer affect the quality of my sex life or my self-confidence.

It took me YEARS to overcome vulva insecurity because I did it without help, but you’re going to get a solid start in only a matter of MONTHS.

The Outie Sanctuary will support you to:

✅ Build your self-esteem, self-worth, self-confidence 😎

Develop coping skills for moments when an unhelpful vulva thought pops up 🧠

Feel more accepting of your vulva ❤️‍🩹

Have a secure relationship with yourself and your body 💃🏽

Experience less rumination and more helpful thoughts about your vulva 💭

Have more enjoyable sex 🛌

Feel comfortable and sexy naked 🤸🏻

Have strong discernment in relationships e.g. be able to spot red flags with new sexual partners 🧐

No longer give a f*** about appeasing the male gaze to live your life free from pleasing men 🚫

Communicate assertively so you can firmly stand up for yourself 💪🏼

Gem Campbell feeling proud to have overcome labia minora insecurity and to be confident with their vulva and during sex.

Client Testimonial

“I absolutely loved the Outie Sanctuary. There are so many things that really helped me, it's hard to know where to begin. My favorite part of the sanctuary is that there are SO many tools that you have at your disposal. Every part of the healing journey is considered. I do think that the inner child healing was the most impactful for me and my journey. Gem is everything that I could have asked for in a coach and more. Being so knowledgeable and so flexible is truly a gift. Every call ends up so tailored to the needs of that session and any road bump that I came across was understood and provided with multiple solutions to try. 

When I first started the Sanctuary, I hated my body. My vulva specifically, but in turn that affected my entire self-worth. Since my time in the Sanctuary I can say that I have come to a point of acceptance and understanding with my vulva. I'm still working on loving it ,but I’ve really come so far since I first started. 

I recommend the Outie Sanctuary to anyone who has a vulva. There’s always room for more self-love and acceptance of your body because society has lead vulva owners to believe that some vulvas have a “better appearance than others.” When you're doing this type of healing, you often find a lot of other parts of yourself that need healing. There are absolutely nothing other than benefits from taking this journey.”

- Jade, 2025 Outie Sanctuary Graduate

What makes the Outie Sanctuary extra special?

✅ Your coach (aka me) is a queer, genderfluid slut! I studied gender diversity and queerness in my Sexology degree so I’m thoroughly educated in this space and provide LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care to my clients.

✅ I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD) and trauma-informed which adds yet another layer of depth to my work and the care you receive inside the program.

✅ I teach from a place of personal lived experience so I can personally relate to your experiences, making you feel seen and validated on a whole other level.

✅ It’s sprinkled with light-hearted playfulness. We dance, celebrate wins, laugh and be our silly-billy selves. In order to get through the mud, we’ve gotta mix it up with some goofiness!

✅ I’m also a qualified Dietitian & Nutritionist - with a specific interest in PMDD and the menstrual cycle — so I’m also very knowledgable in this area and bring this expertise into the Outie Sanctuary which adds depth to the holistic nature of the program.

Book Your Discovery Call

A 30min complimentary meet and greet with Gem on Zoom.

If you don’t see a time that works for you, email gem@iamawildgem.com and I’ll open up a slot that works for you.

The Outie Sanctuary

A 6-month online group coaching program facilitated by Labia Acceptance Coach, Gem.

What You Get Inside the Sanctuary:

2x live group coaching calls each month:

  • One call will be a group sharing and Q&A format - everyone will be encouraged to share their experiences and progress with the group and Gem offers advice and guidance and there will be group discussion to help everyone feel connected and validated in their experience and create a sense of community.

  • In the other call Gem will guide you through supportive and healing practices and exercises.

Access to a library of supportive resources including workbooks and guided tracks designed to reprogram your subconscious mind.

BONUS: Blood Magik online course for free - read about it below.

Payment:

Payments are made in monthly instalments:

Price in AUD

$199 AUD / month for 6 months

Price in USD

~ $131 USD / month for 6 months (exact amount depends on conversion rate)

New 10-Month Option

Get access to the Outie Sanctuary content for an EXTRA 4 months after we finish up the group coaching calls at the 6-month mark:

Price in AUD

$159.40 AUD / month for 10 months

Price in USD

~ $105 USD / month for 10 months

Learn to Love Your Labia Without a Labiaplasty.

Book Your Discovery Call

A 30min complimentary meet and greet with Gem on Zoom.

If you don’t see a time that works for you, email gem@iamawildgem.com and I’ll open up a slot that works for you.

FAQ’S

  • ✅ Your coach (aka me) is a queer, genderfluid slut! I studied gender diversity and queerness in my Sexology degree so I’m thoroughly educated in this space and provide LGBTQIA+ inclusive and informed care to my clients.

    ✅ I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD) and trauma-informed which adds yet another layer of depth to my work and the care you receive inside the program.

    ✅ I teach from a place of personal lived experience so I can personally relate to your experiences, making you feel seen and validated on a whole other level.

    ✅ It’s sprinkled with light-hearted fun!! We dance, celebrate wins, laugh and be our silly-billy selves! In order to get through the mud, we’ve gotta mix it up with some goofiness!

  • Any adult with vulva insecurity who is ready to deeply commit to overcoming their insecurity and healing. All genders are welcome.

  • Think of it kinda like group therapy except its waaay less clinical, more holistic-healing focused and it’s via video call.

    We meet up 2x per month on Zoom for a group session facilitated by me.

    You get 12 sessions total. In 6 of the sessions I’ll guide you through healing practices and teach you how to use practical healing tools that address the root causes of your insecurities e.g. low self-worth, self-loathing, body image issues, inner child wounds.

    The other 6 sessions will be more like group conversations and sharing personal experiences with each other. I will still guide the session, but you’ll share any struggles you’re having with the group and I’ll give you individualised strategies and suggestions. There may be group discussions that arise from these shares which is encouraged to make you feel even more validated, supported and connected to community.

    You’ll also be doing homework tasks, and listening to subconscious re-programming tracks between sessions to keep growing and healing.

  • 6 months, the intention behind this timeframe is to give you adequate time to re-wire and reprogram your brains belief systems.

    Inside the program you’ll have me and the other folks in your cohort to hold you accountable so you stay consistent.

    Sustainable healing requires consistent commitment and dedication.

    You can not choose a 10-month option (see info above).

  • The program runs in cohorts, so no you cannot join anytime. I recommend subscribing to my email list to stay in the loop so you don’t miss out when enrolment opens.

    Click here to join my email list.

  • Unfortunately not, the program is for adults only.

    I recommend subscribing to my email list in the mean time so you can stay in touch until you are old enough to join. Click here to join.

  • They will all be recorded and added to the library for you to watch anytime.

    I always make sure that as many people as possible can attend the lives.

  • Absolutely! I'm genderfluid myself. If you are transphobic or a TERF (meaning you do not accept trans/gender diverse people or believe only cis women have vulvas) please do not join this program.

    If you are confused or uneducated on this topic, please do not hesitate to reach out to me, I am more than happy to edcuate you.

  • ✅Turn up to as many live calls as you can + do the homework I get your during the calls (calls are 1-1.5hrs long)

    ✅Complete all of the workbooks and relevant Blood Magik content (aim for 1 hr/wk)

    ✅Listen to each guided reprogramming track every day for at least 1 month to help rewire your brain.

    • Healing vulva shame

    • Cultivating self-confidence

    • Manifestation & menstruation ritual

    • Embracing your inner slut and seductress

    • Healing period shame (goes hand in hand with healing outie and vulva shame). If you can't love your pussy when it's bleeding, how can you ever fully, wholeheartedly love it?

      Scroll down to read more about Blood Magik.

  • Psychotherapists and psychologists treat mental health conditions. As a Labia Acceptance Coach, I help you to overcome your insecurities with a focus on goal-setting and what you want future you to be like. I certainly use a lot of tools that therapists might use, but I’m coming along your healing journey with you to hold you accountable, give you tools and motivate you. I’m much more hands on than a therapist, you’ll be working with me consistently for a 6-month period so you can really make some solid progress. I’ll help you identify the root causes of your insecurities then support you in tackling them.

Blood Magik Online Course Curriculum

    • Welcome video: details, how to best approach the course, guided embodiment practice, tarot & oracle card readings.

    • Workbook: Blood hygiene, period sustainability + taboo talk

    • Audio: Dance as a healing modality and dance activity

    • Audio: Self-soothing tools

    • Workbook: witch wounds, cultural influence on period beliefs (includes activity)

    • Connecting with ancestors guided meditation

    • Workbook: How to release & re-frame negative period beliefs and stories (journal prompts and activities)

    • Cord-cutting and EFT tapping guided practices

    • Audio: Opening, activating and healing the throat to heal patriarchal wounds

    • Video: Relaxing guided embodiment and self-soothing practice

    • Workbook: How to harness your bleed (period) to listen to your spiritual wisdom and manifest the life you desire

    • Activity: How to connect with your blood

    • Videos and audio: How to use menstrual blood for manifestation, creativity and self-expression

    • Audio: Guided manifestation meditation

    • Audio: The Moon Cycle - learn how to harness the power of the moon and how it compliments your blood ritual & manifestation practices

    • Video: Guided dance practice

    • Video: Activating, connecting with & expressing your inner slut, seductress and your sexuality as well as healing slut shame

    • Video: Self-seduction, self-pleasure & masturbation while bleeding, healing your relationship with and connecting with your vulva & vagina healing

    • Audio: What it means to be a slut and how to heal slut shame

    • Closing Video: Breathwork and reflective journaling

    Nervous system regulation tools are scattered throughout the modules. In order to have a more pleasurable life and heal, we need to have the skills to regulate and be in a parasympathetic dominant state as much as possible.

If you have already completed the Outie Sanctuary and would like further access, you can re-join. Please only re-join the cohort that you previously joined eg if you were in the Mercury cohort, make sure you re-join the Mercury cohort.